📢 word of the week 📢
Sonder
Pronunciation:
SON-der /ˈsɒn.dər/
Definition:
The profound realization that every random passerby is living a life as vivid, emotionally complex, and detailed as your own — with their own ambitions, routines, memories, relationships, and struggles.
Origin:
“Sonder” was coined by writer John Koenig in The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, a project dedicated to inventing words for emotions that people feel but rarely have names for.
It isn’t an ancient English word; it’s a modern invented term that became popular online because people strongly connected with the idea.
Example sentence:
“Watching the city lights from the rooftop, she felt a sudden sense of sonder, imagining millions of lives unfolding behind every window.”
Why people love the word:
It captures a strangely humbling feeling — the awareness that you are the center of your own story, but only a background character in countless others.